Some years back I thought a good gift to my niece/bride would be to have all her bridesmaids and close friends share bits of wisdom. Included in the invitation to a pre-nuptual luncheon was a card to write the advice. I intended to have these cards intermixed with photos in a scrapbook and present it to the bride. I had a good connection for scrapbooking with an acquaintance near my home.
After the wedding I went over to my scrapbooking friend's house, unloaded all the cards and photos and asked her when she would have the book ready.
She did not speak.
She then slowly explained to me that I was supposed to put the book together. Oh, no, no, no--you don't understand, I tried to explain to her. I do not have the time nor talent to make this the masterpiece that it needs to be.
She slowly explained that it was not her responsibility to put the book together. period.
She sold me a book and the related materials.
I actually did put the book together. But I didn't want to. It was not in my skill set, so it was not fun.
Fast forward to couponing. For me, couponing IS fun. I love it as a hobby. It requires no artistic talent, no sense of good layout. It just requires diligence and time. It fits me because I am too cheap at this point to invest in whatever might be needed for a real hobby such as a sport.
Except I am not sweating. And I didn't have to buy the tennis clothes. And I didn't have to buy a racquet. And I didn't have to have the racquet strung. And I didn't have to pay the club dues. Yes, at this stage of my life I just don't like spending money if I don't have to. I did not even spend money on a notebook--I used one I found in some closet. The notebook is from a bank that went under here in our area, and I often chuckle when I think about this book's final use.